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John and I were friends who attended first and second
grade together. My family moved across town, so I lost touch with him
until he transferred to my high school. John was widely recognized as
being extremely intelligent. He downplayed how smart he was, but
everyone knew that he bright. He answered questions before we even
understood what was being asked. He had an unbelievable memory. When we
played a couple of hours of cards, for example, he could remember every
hand and each card that his opponents held.
John and I lost touch when we went to different
colleges. Although he was bright, probably a genius, he did not do well
his first semester in college. As a matter of fact, he got Fs in every
subject, and he was dismissed. John was readmitted after a semester off,
and he graduated without difficulty. He later went to graduate school in
our hometown. We renewed our friendship at that time, but a few
years later, he got married, moved away, and we lost touch again. I
heard that he enrolled in a Ph.D. program in mathematics. I also
heard that he had a well paying job doing statistical forecasts for a
company in Washington, D.C.
John's first semester at college was shocking. Why
didn't he recognize that he was in trouble and take some steps to do
something about it? Well, John enjoyed his new found freedom a little
too much. Apparently he had a great social life his first semester, but
he stopped attending classes regularly, he didn't study much, and he
missed some tests. John figured that he could pull it out in the end,
but he was in too deep. There was no way for him to raise his grades by
the time he realized that he was in serious trouble. People who were not
nearly as gifted as John--those people who attended class, turned in all
their work, studied hard, and took all of the tests--got good grades.
John just didn't understand that he was about to fail until it was too
late.
How do you know when you are in
trouble, and what should you do about it?
1. If you get an F on a test, you are in serious
trouble. An F on the first test in a discipline such as mathematics,
where learning the material from one chapter is necessary to learning in
subsequent chapters, is especially alarming. When you get an F, don't
just expect that you will do better the next time. You need to evaluate
your study habits, your learning strategies, your attendance patterns,
your background knowledge, your effort level, and so forth. You must
make significant changes in what you have been doing in that course.
2. You are in trouble if you can not follow the
instructor's lectures. If you leave the class and you have no idea what
the professor was talking about, then you are at-risk. Even if you can
follow what was said but you can not put it in your own words, you may
need help. Think about how you are using the textbook (consider reading
the book before coming to class), evaluate your background knowledge
(you may need to work through a simpler textbook), and learn how to
develop better listening and note-taking skills.
3. If you begin avoiding attending class, doing
homework, or studying in a course because you don't like the course,
because it's hard, because the professor is a jerk, because you've never
been good at that subject, or because of any other excuse, then you are
heading towards problems. If your lack of knowledge or weak skills do
not cause you to fail, then your attitude will. Remind yourself that you
are responsible for your own learning. You have to work even harder to
do those things that you do not like. Do not allow yourself to
make excuses; get the job done.
4. You are in trouble if you are like John. Are you
having too good a time? You need to balance your academic life and
social life. When grades begin to fall, ask yourself if you are missing
classes because you were up too late the night before. When you have the
choice between going out with your friends or completing an assignment,
do you chose to have fun more and more frequently? Are you abusing
alcohol or drugs? Do you just try to slide by? You may think that your
friends aren't doing any work. No one ever admits how much they are
studying. If they aren't studying much, then they probably aren't doing
well either. To avoid this kind of trouble, start by examining the
reasons why you are at college. Set priorities. Stick to a schedule.
Remember that your success in college will give you so many more options
for your entire life. Unfortunately, the job market is getting tighter.
A college degree will provide more money, a better work environment, a
good chance for advancement, and the opportunity to do what you want to
do for the rest of your life (not what you have to do to earn money).
Seek help if you are abusing alcohol or drugs.
5. You may be in trouble if you are not keeping track
of all of your grades in each course. Use the syllabi to determine where
you stand. We often tend to forget those bad grades that we earned.
6. If you learn that you have a D or an F at midterm,
you are at risk of ending the semester with the same grade. Most
students who have poor grades at midterm either drop the course or are
unable to raise their grade. Do not expect your instructor to give you a
passing grade; you have to earn it.
When you realize that you are
in trouble, develop a plan. These are some key components of your plan
for success:
A. Talk to your professor during his or her office
hours.
B. Talk to your academic advisor.
C. Seek help. Find out what resources are available on your campus to
help you. Do not be afraid to admit that you have made a mistake or that
you are having trouble. I do not know of anyone who did not have trouble
at some point in their college careers. We all make mistakes, and we all
need help on occasion. As a matter of fact, the most successful people
get help regularly from other experts.
D. Write a detailed plan for success. This plan must include a time
management component. It should also include the changes that you are
going to make in terms of your attitudes, study habits, and learning
strategies.
E. Recognize when it is not possible for you raise your grade. You
will generally want to drop a course if you know that no matter how well
you do on the remaining work, you will fail. (Talk to your advisor
before dropping a course to be aware of the consequences.)
In addition to watching for the signs that you are
doing poorly, pay attention to your successes as well. What is the
difference? Can you apply the lessons that you have learned from your
successes to the problem courses? John got off to a really bad start,
but he reevaluated what he was doing, he got a fresh start, and he made
use of his tremendous gifts. Develop your skills to the fullest, and
recognize when you are in trouble. Then do something about it. |
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