| No matter the size or location of your apartment community, you
may have noticed that a lot of us don’t even know who our apartment
neighbors are. With the busy schedules most people have these days,
developing good relations with your apartment neighbors requires
some effort. As an apartment dweller, you’d be smart to befriend
your neighbors. Not only is it just good karma to build your
community and social networks, but there are plenty of advantages to
becoming and cultivating good neighbors in apartment complexes.
Think about giving some of the following “Becoming a Good
Apartment Neighbor” tips a try.
Introduce Yourself to Your Apartment Community Neighbors
Whether you’ve just moved in or you’ve been living in the same
apartment for years, it’s never too late to let your apartment
complex neighbors know a little about yourself. Put on your best
smile and a clean shirt and knock on a few doors nearest you. If you
can’t find an apartment neighbor at home, consider leaving a note
introducing yourself. If you notice a new neighbor moving in, go out
of your way to welcome him, her, or them to the apartment complex
community.
Try a little apartment complex neighborhood get-together or
“community party.” Create some simple invitations by hand or on your
computer for the apartment complex neighbors on your floor or in
your building. Make some snacks or finger foods and mix in a few
beverages. You’ll probably want to stick with light music and
non-alcoholic beverages so that it’s family friendly and comfortable
for all of your potential good neighbors. Don’t worry if your
culinary skills don’t go beyond dialing for pizza delivery - just
order a little party plate at your local supermarket’s deli counter.
If you’re worried about things getting boring, try an icebreaker
activity.
Be Considerate to Your Apartment Neighbors
Noise is where relations between apartment complex neighbors
often go awry. Even though you might be really into your tunes and
want to share them with everybody, their musical preferences may be
slightly or very different than your own. Your apartment community
neighbors could be working at home or studying, requiring a quiet
atmosphere. Try to keep this in mind. If you’re not really sure how
appropriate the volume is when you’re listening to music or watching
cable television in your apartment, you can always ask your
apartment community neighbors. What’s appropriate for you may not
work so well for your neighbors. For example, if you have bare
floors, try putting down area rugs to help absorb the noise for the
apartment neighbors below you.
Be a Good Neighbor by Being Clean
Lastly, avoid decorating your apartment hallway with the cups,
plates, food scraps, and other trash, where your good neighbors have
to smell it, see it, and possibly trip over it. Take it out to the
dumpster pronto. In general, keep all of your outside areas clean,
including hallways, doorways, stairways, and balconies.
So don’t be shy. Go on out and be a good neighbor.
The aforementioned information is provided as a
general guide and is not intended to provide specific advice.
Readers should satisfy themselves that the information is accurate
for their purposes and use.
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